Oh, I understand this. By "you" people mean "anyone" or "one". I don't think people ever take it personally.

I mean I get this function of an individual as a little pawn in this system that can be thrown away when they are not needed but that' precisely how the system works, we are just victims of it and need to get out, I don't think it is productive to think that some mighty individuals are sitting and scheming against you because they are mean. No, it is just how it works and why feel bad about yourself, rather know better your enemy and find weaknesses and defeat it.