No, I meant that differently. As long as you're only in charge of your own life, then it's only your problem and your downfall at least. But, it's getting shitty if others have to witness your downfall too or directly suffer from it, such as your own children. If they have to live with you daily in one and the same house or flat and your trouble and antics are also their problems as well.
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Date: 5 July 2017 11:03 pm (UTC)As long as you're only in charge of your own life, then it's only your problem and your downfall at least.
But, it's getting shitty if others have to witness your downfall too or directly suffer from it, such as your own children. If they have to live with you daily in one and the same house or flat and your trouble and antics are also their problems as well.