matrixmann: (Default)
...The very feeling belonging nowhere, being caught between two chairs, knowing no place you can go to, always the same phrases again your ideas are not desired, you think the wrong way, look at things the wrong way, all of the rest of the world does his own thing without asking you for your opinion, presenting you with a fait accompli all too often, and simply there's nothing you can feel routed to, believe in and just take as it is?
And you think, that homelessness can be filled with a party, with an elite club, with money, with sex, with entertainment, with things you can own, with children you procreate, with people you save, with sacrifice you practice daily, with consuming all that your mouth can find, with hate, with calling your mother soil the greatest country in the world, with waving your hands for a pop star, with religion, with humility and doing all kinds of things people tell you to do?
Don't be a fool! The loss is never going to disappear, no matter what you try to fill that hole with!
You can eat a thousand drugs and pretend ten thousand tons of stuff to your mind, still that wound will remain and it'll continue to bleed endlessly! You feel it in your every cell of your body!
Nothing can cover or change the situation living in a world that constantly says "Fuck off!" to you and "Your survival is none of my business!", unless should you fuck destiny back!
There's no deliverance from it, no relief, and no outer entity can make it disappear!
All that you try to make you forget is just temporary stuff - one year it's one thing, the next it's the other and another measure in the third year, all your life long!
Once you've become, you'll always remain the loner, solitude, a wanderer; all that crap telling you it can revoke that, it's a lie!
Better get a grip on it and learn to endure it every day instead of running after ratcatcher after ratcather that doesn't really make you happy permanently!



Something else suitable: https://matrixmann.dreamwidth.org/17000.html

Ant-sex

11 May 2017 01:55 am
matrixmann: (Yuber Suikoden I)
Female voice:
Hi!
Saw you standing there.
You got a nice face.
Oh, you're not sipping on your glass?
Well, it's not the best place here.
Just the only one you haven't got to walk miles for to get there.
You wanna come with me and I show you a better spot?

Male voice:
Fuck you bitch,
save your tits,
tell me something I don't know!
I speak three tongues,
work a ton,
Baby, you should get some niveau!

Female voice:
You needn't have to be so rude!
Ts, should've known when seeing your coke instead of a beer
that something's wrong with you, guy!
Better save the drugs next time
and get some manners before you get so aggressive!
Which woman wants to go out with you?

Male voice:
(Who says that I want to go home with a female?)

Fuck you bitch,
save your tits,
try to tell me that I don't know!
You want a bang,
and some drink
Baby, the story's getting fucking old!

2nd male voice:
You turned her down pretty well!
How about the two of us going in a dark corner?
I think I know what you want...

Male voice:
Fuck you, dude,
before I puke!
Tell me something I don't know!
I cut myself,
wanted to kill
Baby, you should get some SM-Studio!

Fuck you, pal,
go to hell,
and please take your fucking tube with you!
You think I suck,
golden luck
Baby, I've had it with the likes of you!

Baby, I've had it with the likes of you!

Baby, I've had it with the likes of you!



Musical genre: Hardstyle (Electronic)
matrixmann: (Thinking)
L'amour c'est un sujet compliqué.
Parfois tu dois fabriquer des compromises inhabituels et tu dois vivre avec le fait que tout ne pourrait pas convenir à l'image parfaite d'une relation. Tel que le plan de fonder une famille, la place de résidence, participants possibles complémentaires de la relation, et la profession et les hobbies du compagnon de ta choix.
En les cas durs, c'applique même á du sexe.
matrixmann: (Black suits comin')
In Lower Saxony, a chief physician in gynecology is able to openly state "I don't do abortions anymore" and reason his decision with his Christian belief, and the chief of the clinic is able to express his support for the doctor, stating "There is no law in Germany that can force a doctor to do an abortion. Unless her life is in danger and there is a medical indication to do it.".

Repeat: In 21st century Germany, a gynecologist is able to state "I don't do abortions anymore" - and gets away with it! Where is the big #aufschrei here? Where are the women rights activists here to scream and shout about it?!
I don't even hear a fucking court or a stupid talkshow screaming "Now that doesn't suit out values and definitions of freedom..." and speak about unlawfulness!
Where are you fucking human rights activists here?! Where are you social justice warriors here to cry about it!! I know, you get paid to shut the fuck up about it when religion is involved in such shitty decisions because religion has become so superimportant in this century!

Thank you, people! Thank you for importing this American shit and let religion rule once again over peoples' lives after they have made it to wrest it from state and church to get everyone the same treatment regardless of who they pray to!

If you let one have his way, all the others crawl from under the rock again too!

Don't you fucking dare to complain about the image of a family that the far right comes up with anymore again... You're fucking far right too if you let such things happen!
matrixmann: (Ready)
Lifestyles open doors to certain life decisions. Some are incompatible with certain decisions. Some also don't contain certain decisions. Literally, it's not on that path to be put to choose for certain things.
But, in return, they also open up doors to decisions that other lifestyles don't contain. Which you wouldn't be able to make - or options to choose between wouldn't be put before you, if you took another path.
In figuring one's own way to live, that's the point one must comprehend.
You can't have everything; you can't live a life with a family while you rather feel well when fooling around. You can't imagine to have big assets if you don't have the ambition and the brains to aim for any higher goals at all. You also can't do a traveling circus and work everywhere abroad and far away while there's somebody at home waiting for you and depending on you. As well... you can't live your secret identities and still think you can go the common path of getting married, having children and living happily ever after like all the other people.
Some paths are not the straight paths - and that's what one needs to know.
But, as said, those paths which are not compliant with the straight paths, the usual paths in life, they also have their special advantages. Pathways and forks that don't open up to the others that took one of those straight paths. Experiences that they are not going to make.
Disappointments they'll make conversely won't necessarily be the ones you will make.

One needs to take it as the strange winks of life that it sometimes has, and which it doesn't choose for long who it'll force them upon. It just lets them rain down, and it'll ask from you either to deal with them or to go down trying to pretend to yourself that you can still do the way that all the other people do.
Society on that path an also pretend to you a lot that there are various possibilities to combine both ways, the straight and the unusual one, but think twice if this is even realistic.
Nothing is a combination of both paths if you have to convince all of your environment that the way you do it is not harmful to the kids you gonna have.
matrixmann: (Wasteland Ranger)
Und wieder läutet der Tag der dummen Fragen. "Ask a Stupid Question Day" auch in Übersee genannt.

Eine dumme Frage: Wenn ein Vater und sein Sohn jeweils mit der gleichen Frau geschlafen haben, und sie beiden jeweils ein Kind beschert, in welchem Verwandtschaftsverhältnis stehen dann die beiden Kinder zueinander?
matrixmann: (Black suits comin')
Hell is reserved for me,
I dance to the beat,
I have killed who had fucking raped me
Shame,
you don't say
Blame,
I play a game,
I have paid back what you fucking did to me

You came to my house,
broke in the door,
3 fucking people
and a scared coward
You came in aroused,
bat to the floor,
straight from the steeple
and pushing forward

The first time was - on the floor,
sent the wimp up to me
and he almost smothered my throat
Waking up in nature, dirty and sore,
doing witch hunt on me,
I'm stumbling down the road

The greatest fucker was -
first they tried to drown me in a well,
the next one took his trousers off,
and hurt me in my shell,
another bastard took off,
and made me show no teeth,
naked and slashed I coughed,
went down towards the sea,
the cop readied the gun behind me,
somehow I tumbled away from them,
found a bridge for me, wet grave,
spread my wings and fell down into the current

Hell is reserved for me,
I dance to the beat,
I have killed who had fucking raped me
Shame,
you don't say
Blame,
I play a game,
I have paid back what you fucking did to me

Thought I'd drown,
but somehow I survived,
someone cared for me
and treated my wounds
[down] [down]
back in time,
I remembered who I'd been,
sent back off to land to make you pay what I've had to lose

The first one lost - all of his air,
the next one lost - his skills to see,
the third one lost - his face to me,
the fourth one lost - his pride in chair,
the last one lost - his ass in deep,
and I made the first one kill the last one off,
so a new life was only fair

Hell is reserved for me,
I dance to the beat,
I have killed who had fucking raped me
Shame,
you don't say
Blame,
I play a game,
I have paid back what you fucking did to me

Break your head!
Break your bones!
Kneel for me!
Throwing stones!

Your value as a human being - it has worn out!

(whispered)
"Show me what you got, show horse!"

"I have no remorse."

"Noooo!"

"You'll get no way out."

"For what you've done there is no excuse!"

"If it was your own kid - would you put glory on the abuse?"


Hell is reserved for me,
I dance to the beat,
I have killed who had fucking raped me
Shame,
you don't say
Blame,
I play a game,
I have paid back what you fucking did to me

Hell is reserved for me,
I have replaced my pain,
I have killed who had fucking disgraced me,
Shame,
you don't say
Blame,
I played a game,
I have claimed back what you fucking took from me



Musical genre: Harcore / Gabber / Hardstyle (Electronic)

No relation to real persons or violence given.


matrixmann: (Thinking)
A note for a suggestion how to solve the misery when at least one parent isn't the biological ancestor (be it because it is an adoption inside a homosexual couple or an adoption by a couple which is unable to have kids together with each other):

Have one field in the birth application for the biological mother, have one field for the biological father - for the alimony issues, if both are available or can be detected, and for the sake of the child if he wants to meet the one of both he doesn't know (as often guaranteed by rights the state grants to a person to get to know his descent).
Then have another field in the application and in the birth certificate which states "otherwisely responsible care person in the juristic understanding of the rights and duties of a parent". And there you can enter whoever you want that gives his permission. A partner who's not a biological ancestor of that person, a person, like a close friend of the family, which is going to be responsible for the human mentioned on the paper like a parent in case one or both parents can't fully overtake this task or a concrete relative which is not in the direct bloodline grandparents-parents-child.
Additionally, this field should be extendable to more than one person - for the sake of couples being friend and people of trust to the biological parents.
And: It should be changeable anytime when both parties agree or when a court decision orders it.
matrixmann: (Waiting for command)
Do information campaigns really fulfill their purpose?
Isn't it more important what people do from day to day - what their mindset is that determines their acting everyday?
And do these campaigns have any influence at all on how people think about a certain matter, about a certain group of people?
Did any campaign, for example, ever change any peoples' thinking towards gays? Or make it clear to them "you know, that's like somebody glued tits on your chest, made you be able to get babies, put you in a woman's dress and told you 'from this day on, you live as Maria for all days'"?
Did anything ever convince anyone "this is a story that can happen next door to me, so I better be no asshole 'cause I still need to live in one and the same apartment building with my neighbors"?
matrixmann: (Black suits comin')
One just can't deny that it seems like political discussions more and more drift towards the niveau that is common in the US and that it more and more is about seeing races, sexes, sexual preferences and the discrimination of such.
Like - a white average person that identifies with its born gender is not entitled to critisize a dark-colored person or a person with roots from Turkey, even though it has its justification because the person itself behaves inappropriate and it has nothing to do with him being the phenotype that he is.
First that person is black (or orange or yellow or blue like a smurf), second he is human.
And because he is black, no white Central European person is entitled to say anything bad about him because first that would be discrimination. Just because of something nobody is to blame for, which you can't pick when you are created.
Especially that emerges currently in the refugee debate.
But if another issue is the topic, it is the same.
Suddenly there is dicrimination against women or against sexual minorities and the public gets worked up over another matter. Like there are no other problems to complain about or it always can be reduced to this. That's the ultimate reason why nothing works.
People complain about their own poverty because of discrimination, not because the system dropped them.
And, like a planned campaign against something, if wanting to get excited, they pick out only the worst examples for public debates which you can really certify xenophobia, sexism and discrimination against certain religions.
Acting through presenting, like this is the only kind of person critical of a thing that exists.
There is only black and white, nothing in between. You can recognize a sexist by the shape of his nose.
All mantras that progressivism ever preached about not generalizing, projecting an assumption onto a mass of people blanket, they disobey themselves massively if it suits their wishes. They don't see single persons, they also only see masses standing against them. Let alone if they find someone's statements inappropriate according to their mindset, then he's as outlawed for defamations and reputational damage as a serious felon...
matrixmann: (Thinking)
Die klassichen Arbeitsteilung von Mann und Frau der früheren Jahrhunderten sollte auch unter dem Aspekt der Arbeitsteilung betrachtet werden.
Ein Tag hat nur 24 Stunden; wenn einerseits Geld, andererseits aber auch Essen gekauft, zubereitet, häusliche Arbeiten wie Wäsche waschen, Putzen und sonstige Erhaltungsarbeiten als auch die Besorgung von Trinkwasser bewältigt werden müssen ohne Zuhilfenahme moderner Geräte wie Waschmaschinen, Herden und Autos, trinkbares Wasser ebenso nicht aus einer Leitung und einem Hahn, sondern aus einem Brunnen respektive durch eine Pumpe aus dem Erdreich geschöpft werden müssen, dann erreichen, allein durch das tägliche Zeitlimit bedingt, die Möglichkeiten eines Menschen die Grenzen des Machbaren für den Einzelnen.
Es müssen also mehrere Personen an der Bewältigung des Haushalts beteiligt sein und an seiner Aufrechterhaltung. Erst die Mittel der Moderne machen es möglich, dass jemand all dies allein bestreiten kann, und dass beide Partner einer Beziehung vollzeit arbeiten gehen können (noch dazu zu den gleichen Tageszeiten).
Es ermöglicht sogar, dass nicht die älteren Kinder (ab ca. 7 / 8 Jahren) einer Familie fester Bestandteil dieser Aufrechterhaltung der täglichen Lebensbasis mehr sein müssen und es lediglich noch eine Frage der Vorbereitung auf das Leben als Erwachsener in einem eigenen Haushalt sein kann.

Vielleicht eine gewagte These: Obgleich beide Geschlechter hätten jeweils den Part des anderen einnehmen können ohne dabei nach diskriminierenden Punkten vorgehen zu müssen, bildete sich diese Form der Arbeitsteilung heraus auf Grund der biologisch bedingten physischen Eigenschaften der beiden Geschlechter. Männer sind in der Muskelkraft stärker als Frauen, deswegen sind sie besser geeignet für physisch anstrengenden Arbeiten und den täglichen Broterwerb - der ohne die Zuhilfenahme moderner Maschinen, nur mit Hilfe von Handarbeit, größte Anforderungen an den menschlichen Körper stellt.
Frauen dagegen müssen zwar für die Hausarbeit ein stabiles Rückrat haben, welches für beide Geschlechter gleichermaßen wichtig ist, da auch sie Lasten transportieren und Muskelkraft aufwenden müssen, es ist dennoch leichter für sie zu bewältigen, Wäsche mit einem Waschbrett zu waschen als 30 Kilo schwere Gemüse- oder Getreidesäcke zu tragen. Oder Gemüse zu putzen, zu schneiden und einen Kesel Suppe aus ihnen zu kochen anstelle ein Feld manuell zu bearbeiten.
Wenn eine Frau keinen Mann hatte - weil keiner sie wollte oder ihr Mann bereits verstorben war und kein Sohn bereits reif genug war, die Rolle in der Arbeitsteilung zu übernehmen - konnte es ihr passieren, dass sie solche Tätigkeiten trotzdem ausführen musste aus dem Grunde, dass sie dazu gezwungen war, weil es niemand anderes für sie tat. Manche Exemplare - sowohl heute als auch in früheren Zeiten - waren dabei weniger, andere besser begabt und dafür geschaffen.
Für Männer galt dasselbe an dieser Stelle auf Grund des vorherrschenden Patriarchats einmal nicht, da sie sich wesentlich schneller wieder eine Frau nehmen konnten oder wenigstens ihre Töchter die Rolle der Mutter in der Arbeitsteilung übernehmen mussten, sobald sie groß genug dafür waren.

Für das Grundlegende kann aber gesagt werden: Ob es Diskriminierungsgründe gewesen sind oder nicht, sekundär, im Detail betrachtet, ergibt sich sogar aus dieser Form der Arbeitsteilung eine gewisse Logik, die einige Zweifel offen lässt, ob lediglich Diskriminierung an Hand des Geschlechts dazu geführt hat, dass Mann und Frau die Arbeiten zugeteilt bekommen haben, die sie erhielten.
Ohne die technischen Hilfsmittel der Moderne wäre es auch heute nicht möglich, anders zu leben als auf diese Art und Weise - die Arbeit zu teilen, Aufgaben zuzuweisen, je nach der persönlichen Begabung und den physischen Möglichkeiten des Einzelnen.
Arbeitsteilung ist sogar etwas, was in die Moderne überlebt hat - wenn auch nicht mehr ganz so ausladend wie es in früheren Jahrhunderten der Fall war.
An Stelle der freien Zeit, die durch die Arbeitserleichterung durch Maschinen entsteht, wachsen Hobbys, andere Verpflichtungen, soziale Verpflichtungen, längere Arbeitszeiten - generell oder aufgrund von freiwilligen Überstunden wegen des zusätzlichen Geldes -, Vergnügen, Unterhaltung und das Befassen mit dem Weltgeschene - sowohl in politischer als auch in sonstiger Hinsicht.
Es eröffnet auch den Raum dafür, sich schick zu kleiden, sich zu schminken, einen Duft aufzulegen, weil man durch weniger Schmutzquellen belastet ist, und balzen zu gehen, insofern man noch keinen Partner gefunden hat, oder gar den bestehenden - ganz übel - durch einen anderen auszutauschen.
matrixmann: (I see with the eyes of a hunter)
What in the world actually has God to do with if a woman bears a child or not?

Korb

17 March 2016 07:17 pm
matrixmann: (Wasteland Ranger)
Wenn du deine Traumfrau nicht kriegen kannst, klone sie dir.
matrixmann: (Waiting for command)
Why does someone feel the need "to protect all the babies"?
Why does someone see the need to protect someone that he doesn't know - that he will never get to know and that he doesn't care about apart from only his purpose?
Doesn't he see that, when all people that were conceived in a developed country would survive and grow old, that the population number was far higher in his state and that the battle for resources, for places to live, jobs, food, water, electricity, fossil fuels and health care services, would become far tighter than he is used to it currently?
Doesn't he see that most of the population that benefits from abortion and contraception measures is the poor class that is able to spare it to themselves to care for children which they couldn't feed?
Would that be a desirable state for him if the world was overgrown with poor people?
Would that be a desirable state for everyone if the world was overgrown with people - which you don't know how to feed, how to supply and where to get the resources from for their needs?
Why would you get upon the idea to feed them, you ask?
Why would you be so stupid to risk a scenario in which billions of people stand against your class with not even a billion in number?
Are you that eager and confident you would survive this if it came to battle?
Whether you want it or not, the poor people born will always long for resources and try to get access to them, just like you do. And they will always manage to achieve this in parts.
So - do you plan on colonizing another planet earth that is not in sight just to keep this demand for energy at bay that it won't threaten your comfortable wealth, or do you finally see why there needs to be some reason in this topic?
matrixmann: (Black suits comin')
Ihr beschwert euch, dass euch geifernde Blicke hinterher schweifen?
Ihr beklagt es, dass ihr Zurufe erhaltet, die ihr nicht verstehen könnt, die euch unaufgefordet zugeworfen werden?
Eure Männer beschweren sich, und beteuern, dass sie so etwas niemals tun würden - dass es verächtlich ist und jeden Respekt entbehrt? Dass es jedweder Ehre entbehrt und man so etwas nicht macht?
Sie beklagen sich, dass sich Frauen nicht von dunkelhäutigen Gesichtern vorschreiben lassen sollten, was sie anziehen sollen - dass der Staat versagt und die Zivilgesellschaft ihrer Aufgabe nicht nachkommt, weil sie Angst hat?
Ihr wollt dafür sorgen, dass die Straße frei von Angst leben kann? Dass die Invasoren "unsere Kultur" lernen und sich in Zukunft zu benehmen wissen?
Ein Detail habt ihr vergessen. Wenn man die richtige Statur hat, dann kann man die Sprüche sogar verstehen, die einem hinterher geworfen werden. Kommt ein Fettsack daher - wenn er männlich ist, dann kann er sich bereits etwas anhören, ist er aber etwa weiblich, dann sind es weiße Gesichter, die Obszönitäten hinterherrufen. Ist eine Frau nur fett genug, zeigen sich die Manieren der beherrschten deutschen Männer von ihrer besten Seite. Allein nur die Gefahr, erwischt zu werden, hält sie davon ab, hinterherzulaufen und einmal anzufassen. Die ganz Dreisten schreckt aber nicht einmal dies ab, da sie sich im Klaren sind, dass sie sich jemanden ausgesucht haben, von dem nur eine äußerst geringe Gegenwehr zu erwarten ist.
Dagegen kann sie auch noch so große Kartoffelsäcke anziehen, es wird ihr nichts helfen. Denn - wer suchet, der findet. Mit jeder Größe der Kartoffelsäcke, die sie anzieht, scheint sogar das zweideutige Interesse an ihr zu steigen.
Auch wenn sie sonst wie dumm sind, unter einem Pullover, der bis zu den Kniekehlen hängt, können sie immer noch ein Paar Dellen erkennen, die bei ihren Pornostars nur mit einer schlankeren darum befindlichen Figur einhergehen.
Es gibt kein Entkommen, es sei denn, man versteckt sich - oder es klappt erfreulicherweise mit der Gewichtsreduktion.

Für die Rechte von Frauen eintreten, aber nur von denen, die hübsch genug sind. Die ihr wohlwollend in eurem Bett begrüßen würdet. Bei denen ihr wisst, dass sie sich nicht hinwegducken würden, und eurer Bedürftigkeit eine Abfuhr verpassen würden.
Die hässlichen, die niemand leiden kann - denen darf man signalisieren, was man von ihnen hält. Denen muss man auch nicht zur Seite springen, wenn jemand einen Angriff auf sie unternimmt.
Sie haben es verdient, weil sie es wagen, so hässlich zu sein. Sie darf man wie Vieh behandeln oder gelegentlich mit der Bahnhofstoilette verwechseln.
Menschlichkeit? Es geht nur darum, dass uns andere, die wir obendrein nicht leiden können, die Frauen wegschnappen, die wir selbst ficken wollen.
matrixmann: (Yuber Suikoden I)
Try to act again it isn't so. Try to deny and struggle to talk it down again, that everyone is a liar who speaks out the unspeakable. Direct it into the track of hate again and let it remain in this primitive sector. Don't take a look at things and finally start to do something concrete about it. Let the feministas run again and let the talk simply be about how to protect them from voilence. It's not like that this happens a million times again and people of all couleur are affected by it because you sit back and do nothing.
The last 3 cops in the world can't be blamed on not putting their lives into danger of life.
matrixmann: (Wasteland Ranger)
...tile roofs and work at heights.

...work in construction areas.

...work underground.

...fight in war and see and commit traumatic deeds.

...have always been faced with the judgment to earn and care financially for a family.

...have always been measured by their ability to win out over a competitor.

...often are the ones who pay the aliments for the kids.

...often enough are still solely responsible that technical stuff runs.

...receive less support from social organizations than women (except from anti-drug programs).

...are more likely to be sent to solve life-threatening tasks.

...make out most of the special police and military forces.

...also don't always want to do it with someone.

...can also be subject to sexual harassment.

...can also be subject to sexual exploitation.

...are denied to have female character attributes without claiming they're gay or transsexuals.

...are more often subjects to be spoiled by their mums than women by their fathers.

...get urged to treat ladies well even if they behave hurtful against them.

...may suffer hair loss when they reach their twenties.

...grieve if their dads are not present in their lives.

...are the biggest assholes in the world and also simultaneously the most marginalized group in their woes.
matrixmann: (Wasteland Ranger)
Something that you also realize when reading other peoples' blogs (First thing: → redirect): How much Germans among themselves are split and despise each other.
When you move into a different area of the country, even if you are German too, you always remain where you came from. Even if you haven't been there in a long time or this area doesn't interest you or you'd been a child and couldn't fight back against the ideas of your parents.
It's always that you get it visualized before your own eyes that you're a foreigner.
Well, once could claim this maybe is past because it is more written by people which are already in their thirties and fourties, you don't often meet bloggers which are twenty years old and write about something meaningful or the sad stories of their lives. The time where this had been a craze had been already almost ten years ago. And it didn't center around how feeling foreign because of local hostility because you were an outsider from far away hurt.
Maybe these circumstances have also already become flatter, less significant.
But people moving to the South which is very conservative and formed by Christian belief and more sticks to its traditions than compatively the North still seem to make that experience.
Actually, it might be that you can already feel it when making a visit to relatives which happen to live there.
Snobbishness seems more common there as those areas of Germany didn't ever suffer from great demolition caused by greedy coorporations which happened to shift their factories abroad for cheaper wages. They never experienced what is like to make efforts and still be kicked in the ass, the fairy tale of "the unemployed are fully responsible themselves for having no job" still largly is alive there.
And that seems like the way that settled down there in peoples' heads.
Combined with the influence the church still has there, it seems to work as a mother soil for gazing at people which behave different than them. This may include people which have moved there as well as people within their own communities. A little famous the harder struggles of gays to make their families get along with it when they're from the South of Germany.
If you make your way to the North you won't necessarily meet this attitude.
A great trench that still remains still is the issue of East and West - and that is because the agenda and the attitude, inclusing the historical chronicles, have been written by those who felt themselves as the winner of that part of the Cold War.
Being of Eastern origin - to people born in that time of one German state it won't matter anymore as the way people raise their kids and the television forms their minds now is the same.
But to those people had been born before that time, if they didn't have the voluntary will to forget their life in the former East, they better kept silent about their descent if they moved to the West.

You can also say, you can still feel it that Germany once was formed out of several smaller states.
matrixmann: (Wasteland Ranger)
Have the ideals for leadership of heterosexual relationships that are based upon long-lasting tradition of religious belief transferred onto homosexual relationships as they became more socially acceptable?
At least you can't deny the focus upon it being a 2-person relationship and faithfulness and no adultery has increased since it became a topic in public dialogue.
Practicing polyamory or a policy of "to each his own needs" gets a similar strange look as among man-woman spheres, as long as someone is not involved further into subcultural scenes which are open to these kind of lifestyles.
matrixmann: (Wasteland Ranger)
Does constantly being surrounded by talk about sex shape the mind towards thinking about it all the time?
The question arises at least since the decade since when it moved in into the daily boulevard and pure entertainment shows.
Everywhere you're surrounded at least by a pair of breasts - uncovering they're not supposed to do as it should be content appropriate for a child-friendly time, but for a proper dressing it would be said too much - or they unpack the joker of allround naked skin with the nessecary private parts covered so that nobody can call it "pornography".
And if not that, these parts of the media depicture all kinds of beauty contests that stupidity, crudity and normality have to offer.
Another thing if they don't do that, but they just downright talk about it.
The serious job takes advertising: Is there ever a perfume commercial without appealing to the most primitive instincts of humans?
Cosmetics destined for men also barely get along without the attract-a-lady card.

Before the sexual revolution came, people were ashamed to talk about this topic, even if they were troubled, it wasn't integrated into society as it is today - but what kind of development took it after it was?
Is there, frankly, a necessity to watch pornography to be sexualized? To think in these terms?
Taking a look at how much mass media surround you with that topic, how advertising keeps appealing to you on billboards with asses, chests and bodies, and how entertainment is diluted with messages on that level - look at how much music already is about undressing oneself and showing oneself in ridiculously revealing dresses, rather than the songs themselves -, it is more a miracle passing this topic without understanding or noticing.
In the 90s, as the hardest decade in all this, it was lived quite obvious, even in the pornographical character, sometimes it even appeared quite obviously in music. Compared to that, things have already gone square again.
But what made it out in difference was if you stayed away from pop music, if you ignored the rise of Techno and you put your distance between media contents that propagated sex, you could still find some corners that didn't deal with it where you could settle yourself down.
These days this isn't possible anymore.
Enterprises want to sell so that urge floods every movie and lets them become an unobvious advertsing for various brands. Each thing that reaches mass media is like a fashion show, obsessed with how people look like, how they should pack themselves to cause attraction, or at least how to encase themselves to feel well on their own.
Coming to the movies - do actually still a few be made suited for adults which don't contain a sex scene in some way?
Many conventional love stories do exist as well.
Especially those which come from overseas - which try to rattle at the door of the conventions of those peoples' culture superficially, but remain ineffective and that's what they wanted from the start.

One can form his own opinion if being surrounded by such media and cultural contents while people tend to spend a lot of time with it instead of maybe going out alters their thinking by the time passing.
What already lies beyond is the path that mankind has previously traveled - and one can regard it as a proof of what it effects.

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