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Where there is space, something will try to grow in.
When there's resistance, it will stop to do so. It will still try to push the border further, the furthest it can manage, but if the opposition is stronger than what tries to push into the gap, it's going to stop and remain by what it has conquered.
If it's got a large space that offers itself to it, then the growth will be far greater - just until it meets borders or until it cannot grow no more.
If, in the beginning, resistance is so hard and the space to grow in is very small, it will stop to do so just before someone is already able to take notice of it. So to say, one hardly notices that something moved at all.
Additionally, the effect of what tried to grow into the gap is very minimal, if not at all the project falls apart in its initial stages.
For something to grow, the absence of boundaries is needed. If there are none or none quite noticeable, proliferation will take place.
If boundaries are that tight that one is hardly able to breathe, not even movement will appear.
The key to stop unpleasantries to develop is just showing them their place in the beginning, so they know where they stand and which possible place they can acquire even if they move.
When there's resistance, it will stop to do so. It will still try to push the border further, the furthest it can manage, but if the opposition is stronger than what tries to push into the gap, it's going to stop and remain by what it has conquered.
If it's got a large space that offers itself to it, then the growth will be far greater - just until it meets borders or until it cannot grow no more.
If, in the beginning, resistance is so hard and the space to grow in is very small, it will stop to do so just before someone is already able to take notice of it. So to say, one hardly notices that something moved at all.
Additionally, the effect of what tried to grow into the gap is very minimal, if not at all the project falls apart in its initial stages.
For something to grow, the absence of boundaries is needed. If there are none or none quite noticeable, proliferation will take place.
If boundaries are that tight that one is hardly able to breathe, not even movement will appear.
The key to stop unpleasantries to develop is just showing them their place in the beginning, so they know where they stand and which possible place they can acquire even if they move.