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All books can only be a guideline to you to find your own way.
All definitions can only give you orientation where you stand and where your don't stand.
They can't give you a template according to which you should act or along whose lines you'll find your identity enclosed. It's a task to your own self to define yourself in between all these attributes.
Names of those definitions don't make an identity, identity still is what your own natural desires are - without wanting to fulfill a role and without wanting to justify a term that you apply to your self.
They're just a walking aid to help you realizing there's a certain name for everything and nothing is as absurd as a formation that it's totally unknown to man. Hiding behind it so is a futile and meaningless act in order to get to live one's core, if not to say that it puts up limits again on how you behave and what you seek.
All definitions can only give you orientation where you stand and where your don't stand.
They can't give you a template according to which you should act or along whose lines you'll find your identity enclosed. It's a task to your own self to define yourself in between all these attributes.
Names of those definitions don't make an identity, identity still is what your own natural desires are - without wanting to fulfill a role and without wanting to justify a term that you apply to your self.
They're just a walking aid to help you realizing there's a certain name for everything and nothing is as absurd as a formation that it's totally unknown to man. Hiding behind it so is a futile and meaningless act in order to get to live one's core, if not to say that it puts up limits again on how you behave and what you seek.