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[matrixmann]

Nenne es ein ungeheures Kommunikationsproblem, wenn man selbst Leuten Rassismus unterstellt, die einem nicht dumm kommen.

Call it an incredible problem of communication if one even accuses people of racism which don't get smart with you regularly.

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[onb2017.livejournal.com]

O, I see, then they see key words, trust me. That has happened to me. I know it makes you feel frustrated, like, dude, did you read what I wrote?

[matrixmann]

Then it must be like key phrases rather in my case...

Saying, I know enough about communication only in written form that you don't have the given information which somebody puts his emphasis on in a sentence of context. But that for, I use the html-terms for marking something as cursive or fat (depending on what a blog allows or executes correctly), I know them in my head, it's no big deal.
With that marks in layout that are possible in writing, I sometimes think like "Did you even notice where I put the emphasis on?". You know, I don't do this for nothing or because so I'm bored. To me it seems like people don't notice, for real.
Or, I don't know, if they think I do this for "alibi reasons", to pull my head out of the sling for the public that I don't have anything bad in mind while I actually have (in their imagination).

See, I have this in mind and try to keep that in the back of my head while writing anything to secure myself against gross misunderstandings - and even though I rather mostly get confronted with peoples' associations to a word, even though I try to be exact and general in my picking of words.

[onb2017.livejournal.com]

Key phrase still do not covey meaning so might be. Like you said, you need a context and intonation. I mean bold or italicized work good providing people pay attention but they don't they have preconceived notions and sometimes it is like talking to a wall.

[matrixmann]

Yep, that's the way I get to feel it.
And even try to talk against that - make clear "people, you flood this conversation and me with something from your own head, not what it says here!", it's like you said something even more evil than what you started with. Like "How dare you to have doubts towards my perspective! My perspective is overly right!"
Saying, it's not like I'm not used to always have the wrong opinion compared to current zeitgeist, but anytime it's getting tiring. The game is getting old and taking on dust.