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matrixmannOne's always adapted to the circumstances one has grown up with and is currently surrounded with.
So, if someone asks "why can't you perform X?!" or "why do you do X now?!", then he should keep the thought "What have your parents taught you?" in the back of his head and similar.
So, if someone asks "why can't you perform X?!" or "why do you do X now?!", then he should keep the thought "What have your parents taught you?" in the back of his head and similar.
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Date: 18 October 2018 01:57 pm (UTC)What you behave like, what your habits are like - they all have pathways carved into your brain.
Or, better say: It's just long chains of millions of nerve cells, those pathways.
If you change behavior on the outside, then there's the chance to change these pathways... But only if this change becomes steady. If it becomes the rule, your regular behavior.
Imagine it like stopping smoking or stopping to drink.
You've gotta stop and behave different day by day so you get away from the addiction - or at least, the addiction has no control over you anymore... The item your brain craves for then doesn't rub it anymore.